( Lance is right, they have a lot of similar issues and the advice could apply to them both. However, since this conversation isn't technically about him he's opting to ignore most of that, thank you very much.
He sways in a kind of one-shouldered shrug. )
Well, stop me if I'm crossing the line here, and if I am I'm sorry, but... Letting yourself take time to feel what you're feeling hasn't really been... A thing. If you're waiting for perfect conditions, you're never gonna find them.
( Not here, not in New Amsterdam, not if they get bounced to another new place and he has to transition all over again. Obviously not if he gets sent back to his death. )
If you want... I don't know, maybe we can like. Do a thing, officially, every week or two, where we hang out and you vicariously therapize yourself while I soundboard you or something. If that's like a way too deep huge overstep and we're not on that level, you gotta tell me, because I have... No fucking context on what normal... Friendship... Boundary... Timeline things are. No offense taken, I swear.
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He sways in a kind of one-shouldered shrug. )
Well, stop me if I'm crossing the line here, and if I am I'm sorry, but... Letting yourself take time to feel what you're feeling hasn't really been... A thing. If you're waiting for perfect conditions, you're never gonna find them.
( Not here, not in New Amsterdam, not if they get bounced to another new place and he has to transition all over again. Obviously not if he gets sent back to his death. )
If you want... I don't know, maybe we can like. Do a thing, officially, every week or two, where we hang out and you vicariously therapize yourself while I soundboard you or something. If that's like a way too deep huge overstep and we're not on that level, you gotta tell me, because I have... No fucking context on what normal... Friendship... Boundary... Timeline things are. No offense taken, I swear.