[They've definitely come a long way, both together and as individuals. Forming a relationship strong enough to convince someone who may be closed off that it's safe to reach out is a feat in itself, just as much so as being willing to extend trust in return. And, so far, they've been making both aspects work on both sides, at least as much as they could ever be expected to manage at this point.

Lance appreciates that Ian seems to understand why this is important, and that he does makes it easier to nod in agreement with his request. It also makes it easier to offer a little admission in return, a stronger assurance that he's listening.]

I will. I have no desire to end up repeating Hadriel.

[He's learned from his mistakes, and even if putting that into practice can be difficult, he fully intends to do his best.

But that promised, his posture relaxes a little more, and though he doesn't uncross his arms it's now more contemplative than defensive as he decides this is a good point to shift the conversation a little. It isn't a deflection, exactly, but more an attempt to even things out and also something he's been meaning to ask anyway.]

Speaking of taking time, how have you been doing with everything? Work aside.

[It's probably clear that he means 'with the alien issue', so no need to actually say it.]